I'm new to parenting teens. You all know that. So...I'm looking for advice from ones who either have teens or work with teens. My teen and preteen are extremely social and go into depressed mode when they can't "hang with their friends." My problem. I don't necessarily trust my teens. I don't necessarily trust their friends. So how do I let them not go crazy while still making sure they aren't off doing anything...illegal? Just "trusting" them is out the door. These are good kids that aren't used to parental guidance.